[#Daily] Everybody grows out of their place

We’ve grown out of the place we used to be. That’s very normal, that’s the way of growing up...

Sometimes, I wonder why some friends grow apart, and some friends grow together. Have you ever met an old friend, and all you can talk about is what was happening in the past and the people included in it? Sometimes it feels wonderful to review your memories, you feel nostalgic for a moment. But then, there is nothing else to talk about.

But there are some friends, no matter how long we have been apart, we can still talk about our life and about our future.

The thing I've realized when meeting some people in the first position is that...

They just cannot accept it. Accept that everyone needs to grow in their own way, not your ways of thinking. This does not mean that somebody is better than someone. It means that each of us has grown out of the place we used to be, and the things we used to share.

For this reason, it is very difficult to connect with the version of the person right now than the person before - as she or he used to be.

Therefore, try not to put the people around in the box of your own eyes, you’ll limit their time of growing, you’ll limit their blossom. Friends grow apart and this is okay. As we move along our life, each of us has made our own decisions which creates huge differences compared to the time before that. And sometimes, as two old friends sit together, they might not understand why the connection has lost, but they do know one thing, that they have grown out of the place they used to be (for better or for worse)

But one thing I know is you cannot prevent the proccess from happening And one day in the future, I am too, will grow out of this current place!